Long time ago, I’ve asked a friend of mine who already married obviously about what is the most important thing between in a marriage? She said a COMMUNICATION. I’m quite shocked listening to her answer. It was the first time, people gave me such answer. Normally people would reply as a trust or an understanding. I asked her back why did she say so? She told me that in the end of your life, when u grow older, the only thing that u do is just talking to each other with ur partner. Ur children no longer stay with u. It is just u and him. N, what could u both do if it is not talking. I was silent for a while after listening to her reason. It surprised me so much on how true her answer was. Thinking about her answer, it opened my mind a lot.

Actually, her answer is  the KEY of all other answers that the people usually gave to me. To build a trust and understanding each other,it is all depend on how well both of u communicate with each other. As long as u communicate well, the trust and understanding would appear automatically. The good communication is not only important in marriage. It is important in all other relationships too. Whether it is btwn daughter and mother, sister and her younger brothers and sisters, friends or doctor and patient, all u need is a communication. The communication would clear all the misunderstanding, thereby maintain ur relationship. It leaves u in a harmony and peaceful condition.