Tolerate…, don’t be too calculative!!!
When it comes to money, don’t be too calculative. It is true that the husband is the one whom should give the money to his wife. But, it is only applicable for a wife who doesn’t earn any money, a housewife…
Why is the reason the husband allow the wife to work in the 1st place? The answer is to increase the household income, isn’t it… So, the working wife should also contribute for the spent… Don’t let the husband pay for everything… The wife should also help. Especially when both of your income are almost the same or the husband earns less than the wife.
Don’t be too calculative because it will become the source of fighthing and quarrelling. For the sake of marrital harmony, tolerate each other. The wife will never loss anything. In fact the husband will feel very grateful and appreciate the wife better. Share the money like you want the husband to share the chores.
Nevertheless, if the husband earns more than the wife, then you can let the husband pay for everything. But, it is never wrong if you pay once a while, right?
And when you pay for the spent, don’t let the husband take the advantage on you. Don’t pay for everything. The husband is the head, so he is the one who should take the lead. The wife is there to help.
p/s:Final words from Dr Nora – An advice for young couple
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For me, the husband should still give the money to the wife monthly. Eventhough it is only a small amount, it symbolizes that the husband has done his job. So, automatically, the wife will also contribute for the spent later. The wife just want her to be appreciated by her husband. Once she feel appreciated, she will help voluntarily.
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sbb kite nak pilih yg kite suke…
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